Red Journey..

You will come across so many different people in your life and what you may never notice is that the ones that bring the most smiles are usually the same individuals that give you the most trouble. Sometimes it is a lot easier to let people in than to let them out. you may find yourself holding on to something for so long simply because you don't know how to let it go. I'm all for loving hard ( In a raw and exposed way) but through experience I've taken up a new task and that is to love myself with the same or more intensity than I'll ever love anyone else ( Easier said than done).

Its about re-programing yourself and understanding that emotions don't truly have control over you. It is ALL about perception, when you allow your eyes to guide your heart your mind automatically registers thoughts along these lines " I Love them and I want them to stay in my life". The same way this process increases your emotions it decreases it. Am I suggesting for us to walk around blindly then? No. but it would be nice if we could stop ourselves from seeing only the things we want to see.

Selective love is not love... " I love you in my own way" is a played out excuse to be able to string people along and get away with things that shouldn't be acceptable. cheating Love is not love ... " everybody does it" is a clear example of how we have settled/grew comfortable with an idea that easily lowers our standards. Unconditional Love .. Is indeed love that forgives and endures but if you knew how to love YOURSELF unconditionally you would know where to draw your lines.... LOVE doesn't have to go but some people do.